What do you think?

Have you ever been in love with someone while in a sexual relationship with another? I was with a friend just last week and we had this whole discussion about how it’s possible to be in that kind of situation where your heart solely belongs to another and you constantly give your body to someone else. How is this possible? I kept insisting on not possible because I simply do not understand it. I feel you can’t love somebody wholeheartedly and still cheat on them, it might get a bit confusing in the long run because I know even sexual relationship often bring about emotional attachment. What then happens after? I mean I can’t even kiss a random stranger or someone I am not attracted to so I think you should feel something however little for anyone you would get involved with romantically. What do you think?


2 thoughts on “What do you think?

  1. I’ve always been in love with one of my friends but I’m always in relationships with other people (my friend doesn’t like me back). I suppose I do feel something for the guys I date… but it’s just not the same. I don’t think I’ll ever be able to love someone else. I’ve also found that being in a sexual relationship with someone doesn’t bring me closer to them at all, like… there’s no change for me.

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    • Oh wow , i wish i could separate my emotions from just normal intimacy with someone, i envy you in a way, i think it’d be less stressful btw are you sure you aren’t opening your heart to other opportunities, i have a feeling you might be able to love someone else. Perhaps you need to accept it can’t happen with your friend and let yourself love again, just my opinion though 😉


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